you can't talk about it after the quarrel either. I think it's normal to be sad about this kind of situation. But I'm also sure there must be many people who care about you! And yes, there are many many boys, so maybe the result will be that you find a better one.
我:In China, [捂脸][捂脸]there are many good boys…If he miss(错过)me,he won't find another girl who loves him beyond my true love!Maybe he is still busy,this month his teacher gives him too much tasks.Haha![旺柴]If he miss (想念)me,he will find me no more than 7 days…Today it is the second day.Actually he is nine months younger than me……He was born in January,I was born in March,1997.We are stubborn……
外教:Yes, I understand. It's like an ultimatum, he must show he misses you within this period of time. I expect he will miss you a lot and let you know within the 7 days……But if not, at least that also makes things clearer.
我:Haha, very wonderful[旺柴].We are stubborn and wait each other.[破涕为笑]金牛座Taurus really understands love,but 摩羯座is colder than me.Love is like a war, I am happy and I will be a winner![旺柴]I think he will find me on more than one week.Otherwish ,I will find another boy who loves me!I think this will hurt his heart forever!He is clever,he is also waiting for my messages.Haha[旺柴],I will give him the last chance[强][强][强].I am emotional,but I can't bear his cold every time.Self-esteem is very important,but……What about me?[破涕为笑]
外教:Ah, that's interesting!Actually I am also a Taurus (born April ) While I think I am usually friendly and easygoing, I am certainly also stubborn.And I think Capricorn (your boyfriend's zodiac sign) are also stubborn indeed. So it's understandable you will clash sometimes.
我:[捂脸]As a matter of fact,single dog is free![旺柴][旺柴][旺柴]He said he will be a single dog if I break up with him forever,and won't find another girl.[破涕为笑]Wow!Great! I was born in4,21st[捂脸]I think Taurus is very cute and easy-going[强]!He was born in January,20th[捂脸].(1.20——水瓶座加摩羯座He is cold!)
外教:There are also advantages to being a single dog.And I could understand if your boyfriend feels it's impossible to find a girlfriend that is better than you.
我:According to Chinese fortune telling(算命,周易/易经Yi Jing), he is fire and I am water.[旺柴]
外教:Our birthdays are very close! Yes, I also think we are usually friendly and easy-going (it seems Taurus is not often angry, but if we are angry we are very angry!Maybe that's a little true for me)Haha, actually my sister's birthday is exactly the same as your Boyfriend's,Also January 20th. But my sister always says she doesn't like Capricorn and she isn't really a Capricorn, but actually already an Aquarius. Because that starts the next day)Hm, fire and water sounds like a difficult combination……
我:In China,when some people marry,they will find one master (算命大师) to predict (预测)[旺柴]Sounds wonderful[破涕为笑]I like mysterious things,including western星座and old prediction of Chinese[捂脸]Haha,according to this, our love story is filled with tragedy and comedy (悲喜交加,相爱相杀)
外教:It's interesting! So did you find a master for these predictions already? I saw you wrote earlier that a fortune-teller predicted problems and even divorce.But then again, maybe sometime we can defeat fate and also have some influence on this ourselves[呲牙]
我:Our story likes Shakespearean Tragedy[流泪][流泪],so I found different masters to tell our fate,we are difficult indeed,But if we understand each other,we can win!
外教:Yes, that's more hopeful!I also like to believe that with understanding and through our own behaviour, we have some influence on the outcome as well.
我:Yes[强],nothing is difficult if you don't give up easily[捂脸]
外教:And maybe even very suitable couples will sometimes quarrel and go through a difficult period!
我:[强][强][强]I agree.Oh,my God![破涕为笑]It's sunny today!The Summer holiday is coming!
外教:Yes. So the question now will be to give up or not to give up. I agree it's important not to give up too easily. But if the problems are too deep and you really think he is cold, perhaps giving up can also lead to new and better opportunities. But maybe wait if he contacts you first! Yes, it's really summer now.
我:Thank you for your words,you must be very busy today,Sorry[捂脸]
外教:Will you also be free and have some time to enjoy the summer holiday? I think you should relax well after all this relationship stress[拥抱]
我:Yes!But I should study [捂脸],there is a test next month
外教:I am not busy now, because my classes for this semester have finished already. And in any case, I am happy to talk with you, so will always do my best to make time for that.I feel touched that you shared your story with me and hope you will be happy!!Wow, that's important too[呲牙] What kind of test? Postgraduate entrance exam? Or are you already a student now and the test is part of your studies?I shouldn't disturb you then, because maybe you need to study for the test!
我:About becoming a teacher[捂脸][捂脸]……I think becoming an English teacher is not easy.After graduation,I jioned in teaching tests twice[捂脸],but I failed…Teacher Recruitment Examination(教师招聘考试)[捂脸]
外教:Wow, it's great that you want to pass the English teacher's test! Actually, I think you would be a good teacher and your personality is suitable for it[鼓掌] But I also know the tests are often about a lot of theory and maybe not so easy to pass加油[呲牙]
我:In our town,it's very difficult.I have too many competitor竞争者[破涕为笑]
外教:Haha yes, but I'm sure you are also very good, so you can beat your competitors[加油][呲牙]
我:Love is only one part in my life,so I should work hard[流泪]
外教:Yes, I understand. It would be great if you can pass the test!! And then happy love life can follow as well[调皮]
我:Thanks![强]You know, we students all like you!Maybe it's the last time I join in the competition![破涕为笑]If I still fail in the exam,maybe giving up is a good choice!Earning money is much better!Taurus has the more chances to make money than others!Haha,I am very happy!Thank you!It's time to have lunch.Have you ever had lunch?
外教:I think it's always good to have a plan A (pass the exam), but also a plan B if the first plan fails. Haha, Taurus are good, but also you as an individual person are good and resilient! Maybe not everything can be a success, but I know you will succeed in the end!!
我:Yes![强][强][强]We should believe in ourselves!Haha,we eat noodles[捂脸].What about you?[得意]
外教:Thank you, I always remember and like all of you as well.It's special to meet so many great people in one year of classes. I will always care about all of you. And I'm very happy to talk with you today, even if the reason is a little sad.Yes, I should eat lunch too. I usually eat bread for lunch.But you should enjoy your noodles[呲牙]
我:Haha,I always see you climb mountains in different cities and see some students,friends…Your life is colorful![强] Haha, this is different from China[捂脸]
外教:Haha, part of my life is also just work[偷笑] The photos show the happy moments. It's harder now to visit many students at once, because you all live in different places and have your own busy lives. But I hope one day I will have an opportunity to meet you again[转圈] Haha, maybe then you and your boyfriend will have made up and are happily married[呲牙]Yes, different habits in different cultures!
我:OK,thanks for your suggestions this afternoon!Haha,have a good time in China!Luo Yang洛阳is interesting![得意]